How to Be a Good Husband in Islam: A Guide for Muslim Men

A message to the husband

⛔️ Shame on every husband who lives with his wife while she feels that she has no man.

⛔️ Shame on every husband whose wife misses the word love.. and distributes beautiful words to a crow..

⛔️ Shame on every husband who treats his wife as if he owned her.. or used her.. so he underestimates her feelings and dignity..

⛔️ Shame on every husband who considers harshness and roughness to be manhood..

⛔️ Shame on every husband that considers anger and cruelty strength..

⛔️ Shame on every husband that sleeps while his wife is crying, sad and unhappy because of him..

⛔️ Shame on every husband who looks at his wife as if she is a maid or a cook or....and she should shut up in his presence..

⛔️ Shame on every husband who revolts for trivial reasons and prevents his wife from defending herself because he is the man..

⛔️ Shame on every husband who holds his wife responsible for success and happiness except for his navel, he is the leader of marital life and he is responsible for her success and failure..

⛔️ Shame on every husband who believes that the wife's rights are food and drink as if she were a beast..

⛔️ Shame on every husband who is silent when God has given him the blessing of both.

⛔️ Shame on every husband who laughs and is kind to strangers and forgets being nice to his wife...

✋🏻 Be a merciful husband... affectionate... honest... merciful.... jovial.. gentle.. a model for your family.. sensitive.. friendly..

☝🏻And know that all that you see from your wife is a reflection of the kindness with which you treated her..on the face..Fear Allah regarding women, for they are your helpers.

Here are some specific things that husbands can do to be kind and loving to their wives:

• Be there for her emotionally. Listen to her when she needs to talk, and offer her your support.
• Be physically affectionate. Hug her, kiss her, and hold her hand.
• Do things to make her life easier. Take care of the chores, cook dinner, or run errands for her.
• Be respectful of her opinions and feelings. Don't dismiss her or belittle her.
• Be grateful for her. Tell her how much you appreciate her and all that she does for you.
• Make time for her. Put aside some time each day or week to spend with her, just the two of you.

Dear Men, Try to be a husband like prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم 

May Allah help us to be kind husband of our wives.

 Ameen🤲

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