AR-RUBAYYI' BINT MU'AWWIDH (رضي الله عنها)
She is ar-Rubayyi' bint Mu'awwidh bin 'Afra al-Ansariyyah from Banun-Najar.
She is the mother of Muhammad bin Iyas bin al-Bukayr.
The Messenger of Allah ﷺ visited her the morning of her wedding. Ar-Rubayyi' bint Mu'awwidh said:
After the consummation of my marriage, the Prophet ﷺ came and sat on my bed as far from me as you are sitting now, and our little girls started beating the duff and reciting verses mourning our fathers, who had been killed in the Battle of Badr.
One of them said, "Among us is a prophet who knows what will happen tomorrow."
On that, the Prophet ﷺ said, "Omit this (saying) and keep on saying the verses which had been saying before."
The grandmother of ar-Rubayyi' bint Mu'awwidh was 'Afra.
'Afra gave birth to seven sons who all fought in the Battle of Badr alongside the Messenger of Allah.
Ar Rubayyi' lived a long life, dying during Abdul-Malik's caliphate 70-some years after the migration.
Ahadith:
She narrated 21 ahadith which are collected in the six books of hadith.
Those who narrated from her include Abu Salamah bin Abdur-Rahman, Sulayman bin Yasar, and others.
Her father Mu'awwidh was from the major participants in the Battle of Badr.
He killed Abu Jahl in this battle.
Ar-Rubayyi' said,
"I took some perfume from Asma' bint Mukharribah, the mother of Abu Jahl.
I said to her, 'Write a bill for me, and write it for ar-Rubayyi' bint Mu'awwidh.'
She replied, 'You are the daughter of the one who killed his master.'
I replied, 'No: rather, I am the daughter of the one who killed his slave.'
She said, 'By Allah, I will never sell you anything.'"
Her Khula':
Ar-Rubayyi' said, "Some words were exchanged between me and my cousin (who was her husband).
So I said to him, 'You can have everything I own if you grant me separation.'
He replied, "These are your words which you have said.'
By Allah, he took everything I owned, even my bed.
So I went to 'Uthman and mentioned this to him.
And during these days, he was under siege.
'Uthman said, "The condition has the most right to ownership, so take everything she has, even her hairband if you like.'
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