Contact between lovers in improper and unlawful ways is a calamity and a real disaster.

Fear Allah and stick to what's halal:

Shaykh Muhammad al-Saalih al-‘Uthaymeen رحمه الله تعالى said: 

Contact between lovers in improper and unlawful ways is a calamity and a real disaster. It is not permissible for the man to contact the woman in this case, or for the woman to contact the man. If he says that he wants to marry her, then he must tell her wali (guardian) that he wants to marry her, or she should tell her wali that she wants to marry him, as ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) did when he offered his daughter Hafsah in marriage to Abu Bakr and ‘Uthmaan (may Allaah be pleased with them).

But if the woman contacts the man directly, this is the source of fitnah (temptation).

[As’ilat al-Baab il-Maftooh (Question no. 868)]

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