A righteous man according to Quran and Sunnah

𝐒𝐨 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐀 𝐑𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐞𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐌𝐚𝐧?
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🔘 But do you know what that means? It means he won't take you out on your birthday. He won't celebrate anniversaries. He will want you to cover according to the Qur'an & Sunnah. He won't allow you to attend those free mixed weddings. He won't allow you to go out &  come home at any hour of the day you please. He won't allow you to keep your non practicing & evil friends. He will expect you to seek knowledge as that's what he will be upon. He won't allow you to work with men, nor will he let you upload selfies online, whether in Niqab or not, because he's a real man & he has Ghayrah (protective jealousy).

🔘So when you fantasize over beards & trousers above the ankles & say you want to marry a man of the sunnah, know that you must be a woman of the sunnah. So when you dream of a man who will wake you up for Tahajjud, know that you yourself must be a woman who prays the nights. When you pray for a man who will guide you on the path to Paradise, you must first have recognized that path and already taken the steps to tread it. Allah says (interpretation of the meaning) "Wicked women (are) for wicked men, and wicked men (are) for wicked women; and good women (are) for good men, and good men (are) for good women." [An Noor]

🔘 Don't fantasize about Ghayrah &  then get shocked when you realize that it means that he's not okay with your lifestyle of leaving the home for merely passing the time &  he's not okay with you baiting out your whole personality online. Don't fantasize about a knowledgeable husband &  then be rebellious and upset when he expects you to act upon that knowledge.

🔘Things like this don't just come. Social media hypes up the idea of marriage through these disgusting couple selfies or even couples giving "dawah" & what not & you think that's all that marriage is?

🔘We look at the marriage of Aisha(رضي الله عنها ) with the Prophet ﷺ & we all love the idea of it, but are we willing to give that? Aisha (رضي الله عنها) narrated that 3 months would go by & they would not eat a thing other than dates & water

[Sahih Bukhari].

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