MEN want a righteous woman but are you yourself as righteous as you want your future wife to be? 

It’s sad when I see brothers flirting, chatting away with non mahram women.  Going to places where it’s haram.  Have foul language, smoking, vaping etc. 

When you ask these brothers what type of wife they want. They reply “A righteous, upright, pious one”

I only have one question for such people, How do you expect a righteous spouse while you yourself are far away from deen❗️

On the other Hand, We have other kind of breed on Social Media known as "Alpha Males"  with toxic masculinity who consider themselves as Something like they are king or what in dominating position and always criticise women, disregarding  and considering them as Slut or Whore  (Allāh's refugee is sought) and tend to create an image of women as if they are criminal or what. Subhan Allāh ❗️

As a Muslim, our sole Ideal should be Prophet Muhammad ﷺ - How he treated everybody especially women!

Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said

أَكْمَلُ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ إِيمَانًا أَحْسَنُهُمْ خُلُقًا وَخِيَارُكُمْ خِيَارُكُمْ لِنِسَائِهِمْ خُلُقًا

The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character, and the best of you are the best in behavior to their women.

📖 Sunan al Tirmidhī 1162 | Sahīh 

Always remember, Good men are for good women,  and Good women are for Good men

If you want a Pious Spouse, then be pious and free from Haram relationships first.

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