Something important about Love and marriage

We all have fantasies about marriage right ? But When you get married, it won't be easy, it won't be a walk in the park either, you'll have good days and bad days. Some days your spouse will only give 30%, some days you'll have to pick up and give the remaining 70%, some days you'll wake up feeling like you can only give 10%. It's a compromise, marriage isn't a *fairytale*, it isn't an achievement either, marriage to me, is a different direction of life. Marriage to me is a different path, it's a different way of living. It's a blessing from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala to get married and complete half your deen, but don't look down on those who are not married yet.

Marriage is understanding that every day will bring new challenges. It won't be all holidays and long trips away and loving each other every second of every single day. It's about realising that love, respect and boundaries are exactly what you need in marriage, compromising and understanding and respecting each other and not giving up when times get tough and you feel a little bit rough.

Marriage is knowing that it doesn't matter what storms come and try to ruin your foundation, you will be there to support one another. Marriage isn't easy, it's not all roses and pretty gifts and lavish luxury holidays. Marriage is love, compromise and knowing that at the end of each hard day, you've got one another to lean on.

Remember to love someone is different and then to live with them is different, to get married  is the most difficult, most important and the biggest decision of your Life. So be rational and not emotional because it's the matter of this duniyah and aakhirah!

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